Rainbow Realities: Exploring GRSD Knowledge, Language, and Diversity

Jacob Tobia

“There is no right or wrong way to be non-binary. There is just your way.”  

Judith Butler

“Gender is not something that one is, it is something one does, an act… a doing rather than a being.” — 

Oscar Wilde

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken."

What is Hermeneutical Injustice?

Hermeneutical injustice is a concept in philosophy, particularly in epistemology and social theory, introduced by philosopher Miranda Fricker in her influential work Epistemic Injustice: Power and the Ethics of Knowing (2007). It refers to a specific form of injustice that occurs when there is a gap in collective interpretive resources—such as language, concepts, or frameworks—making it difficult or impossible for a person or group to understand, articulate, or communicate their own experiences.

This type of injustice often stems from systemic power imbalances, where marginalized groups lack the social authority or visibility to shape the shared language and concepts necessary to express their lived realities.

Why It Matters

Hermeneutical injustice is significant because it reveals how societal power structures influence not just material resources but also the very tools of understanding and communication. Addressing this injustice is crucial for achieving epistemic fairness, where everyone has the ability to make sense of and share their experiences, fostering a more inclusive and just society.

The Ultimate Rainbow Lexicon
Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Dictionary

Gender Identities

  • Abimegender: Associated with being profound, deep, and infinite. May be used alone or combined with other genders.
  • Adamas gender: A gender that is indefinable or indomitable; resists categorization.
  • Aerogender: Also called evaisgender, changes according to one’s surroundings.
  • Aesthetigender: Derived from aesthetics, also known as aesthetgender.
  • Affectugender: Based on mood swings or fluctuations.
  • Agender: Does not identify with or experience any gender; also called null-gender, genderless, or neutral gender.
  • Agenderflux: Mostly agender with brief shifts into other gender types.
  • Alexigender: A fluid gender identity between unnamed genders.
  • Aliusgender: A strong specific gender identity apart from social constructs, neither male nor female.
  • Amaregender: Changes based on emotional attachments.
  • Ambigender: Holds two specific gender identities simultaneously.
  • Ambonec: Identifies as both man and woman yet belongs to neither.
  • Amicagender: Gender changes based on friendships.
  • Androgyne: A combination of feminine and masculine genders.
  • Anesigender: Close to one gender but more comfortable identifying with another.
  • Angenital: Desires to be without primary sexual characteristics but not genderless.
  • Anogender: Gender fades in and out but returns to the same feeling.
  • Anongender: Has a gender identity but avoids labeling it.
  • Antegenger: A protean gender that is formless and motionless.
  • Anxiegender: Has anxiety as a defining characteristic.
  • Apagender: Lacks feelings or apathy toward gender identity.
  • Apconsugender: Knows what gender is not but cannot define it fully.
  • Astergender: Bright and celestial gender identity.
  • Astral gender: Related to space.
  • Autigender: Closely related to being autistic.
  • Autogender: A deeply personal gender experience.
  • Axigender: Between agender and another gender, experienced separately.

Sexual Diversity

  • Abrosexual: Sexual orientation changes over time.
  • Asexual: Little or no sexual attraction to others.
  • Androsexual: Attraction to masculinity.
  • Aromantic: Experiences little to no romantic attraction.
  • Autosexual: Attraction to oneself or self-pleasure.
  • Bisexual: Attraction to two or more genders.
  • Demisexual: Sexual attraction occurs after a strong emotional bond.
  • Fraysexual: Sexual attraction fades with emotional connection.
  • Gay: Attraction to individuals of the same gender (also homosexual).
  • Gynosexual: Attraction to femininity.
  • Heterosexual: Attraction to individuals of a different gender.
  • Homosexual: Attraction to the same gender.
  • Omnisexual: Attraction to all genders while acknowledging gender as a factor.
  • Pansexual: Attraction regardless of gender identity or expression.
  • Polysexual: Attraction to multiple genders.
  • Queer: Broad term rejecting traditional sexual orientation labels.
  • Sapiosexual: Attraction to intelligence.
  • Skoliosexual: Attraction to gender-nonconforming or nonbinary individuals.

Relationship Diversity- Types

  • Aromantic Relationships: Little or no romantic attraction, focusing on emotional closeness.
  • Companionship Marriage: Focuses on mutual support and emotional closeness, not centered on sexual activity.
  • Domestic Partnership: Legally or socially recognized relationship without marriage.
  • Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT): Open relationship where partners do not share details of encounters with others.
  • Egalitarian Polyamory: All relationships are treated equally, without hierarchies.
  • Friends with Benefits: Friendship with sexual activity but without romantic commitment.
  • Hierarchical Polyamory: Relationships are ranked in importance, such as primary or secondary.
  • Long-Distance Relationships: Partners live far apart but maintain their relationship.
  • Monogamy: One partner at a time.
  • Open Relationship: Partners agree to have romantic or sexual interactions with others.
  • Polyamory: Multiple consensual romantic relationships.
  • Polygamy: Marriage involving multiple spouses (e.g., polygyny or polyandry).
  • Queerplatonic Relationships: Committed relationships beyond traditional friendship or romance.
  • Relationship Anarchy: Relationships not bound by conventional rules, emphasizing personal freedom.
  • Serial Monogamy: A series of monogamous relationships.
  • Situationship: Romantic or sexual relationship without clear labels or commitments.
  • Solo Polyamory: Being polyamorous without hierarchical or primary relationships.
  • Swinging: Couples consensually engage in sexual activities with others.
  • Triad Relationships: Romantic and/or sexual relationships involving three people.

Commonly used word when in a diverse relationship

  • Polycule – A network of individuals connected through polyamorous relationships. It can be visualized as a web or structure showing how people are linked romantically or intimately.
  • Metamour – A partner's partner in a polyamorous relationship, with whom one might not share a direct romantic or sexual connection.
  • Triad – A romantic or sexual relationship involving three people, often considered a type of polyamorous relationship.
  • Quad – A relationship involving four people, often connected romantically or sexually in various configurations.
  • Solo Polyamory – A type of polyamory where an individual prioritizes their independence while engaging in multiple relationships.
  • Compersion – The opposite of jealousy; feeling joy or happiness when a partner is experiencing pleasure or love with someone else.
  • Hierarchical Polyamory – A polyamorous arrangement where relationships are ranked, often with a “primary” partner having priority.
  • Non-Hierarchical Polyamory – A polyamorous approach where all relationships are considered equally important without ranking.
  • Kitchen Table Polyamory – A style of polyamory where all partners and metamours feel comfortable and are willing to spend time together, like sitting around a kitchen table.
  • Relationship Anarchy (RA) – A relationship philosophy that rejects societal norms about relationships and focuses on building connections based on individual needs and mutual agreements, without predefined labels or hierarchies.
  • Queerplatonic Relationship (QPR) – A relationship that goes beyond friendship but isn’t necessarily romantic or sexual, emphasizing deep emotional intimacy.
  • Open Relationship – A relationship where partners agree to engage in romantic or sexual connections with others while maintaining their primary relationship.
  • Monogamish – A mostly monogamous relationship that allows for some degree of openness or exploration with others.
  • Swinging – A form of consensual non-monogamy where individuals or couples engage in sexual activities with others, often in a recreational or social context.
  • Throuple – A three-person relationship, often involving equal emotional or romantic connections between all members.
  • Vee (or V Relationship) – A relationship where one person is romantically or sexually involved with two others who are not romantically involved with each other.
  • Anchor Partner – A term used to describe a significant partner in someone's life, often in non-hierarchical polyamory.
  • Parallel Polyamory – A polyamorous arrangement where partners maintain their relationships separately, with little or no interaction between metamours.

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